Developmental attachment and gay and lesbian adoptions

C. Alexander

With increasing numbers of gay men and lesbians choosing to raise children, many are looking at the option of adoption. Adopted children present with a unique collection of psychological issues, many of which are rooted in a history of disrupted attachment. Children with attachment-related disturbances inevitably manifest with a variety of behaviors that often can be classified as oppositional or disruptive. With more attention by researchers and clinicians on the effects on children of growing up in a gay or lesbian household, it is important that other variables be considered besides the sexual orientation of the parents. Otherwise, conclusions can be drawn that don't accurately reflect the total picture for these children and families.